Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Chat

Join the discussion and chat with other Mumsnetters about everyday life, relationships and parenting.

12 year old DS, normal pre teen hormones or something more?

2 replies

Monr0e · 15/12/2018 10:35

As the title says, DS is 12, in year 8 at high school. He has always been quite sensitive and a bit anxious. He is a worrier and will worry things through to their worst possible conclusion even if the outcome is extremely unlikely.

He really struggled in year 7, lots of friendship issues and worries about fitting in but year 8 seemed to be going better. Although I don't think he will ever enjoy school. However lately he has been very up and down. He has periods of being apparently fine then can turn in an instant. Last night he was sobbing, his latest fear is growing up. He worries about losing us, that he will have a rubbish job and no money, that he will have to leave his home, give up his xbox, just about anything he can worry about. This has happened a few times over the last month.

It feels a bit like living with Jekyll and Hyde! He is my oldest DC so we have never been here before so I'm wondering if this is all normal pre teen hormonal angst? Or is we should be more concerned. And if you've been here before how long does this rollercoaster last?! Thank you

OP posts:
DanFmDorking · 15/12/2018 11:10

Absolutely normal.

Monr0e · 15/12/2018 15:40

Thank you, that's reassuring to know.

Now any idea how long it might last and any tips on how to get through it?!

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread