Posted in conception the other day but not had any response .
Has anyone been in a similar below situation and how did it pan out for you? The more I think about getting pregnant again the more it scares me with what happened before
I had an ectopic pregnancy in July, only 9 days after finding out I was pregnant. Ended up in the early pregnancy unit due to bleeding and was told it was ectopic. When trying to out a cannula in I ended up fainting then being rushed to surgery where I lost my left tube. Physically recovered well and quickly but I feel very up and down some days
Since then I've had days where I'm absolutely fine and think it just wasn't meant to be at that time. Other days I feel like I'm really struggling and it's just not fair. It tends to come out of nowhere when I realise I would be at certain staged like showing a bump or getting to milestone weeks
When people announce pregnancies I am genuinely happy for them but so sad at the same time. We weren't planning getting pregnant due to getting married next year but it was a very much wanted and loved baby straight away.
We've said we will wait till after the wedding and just see what happens but I'm so scared of it happening again especially now I only have 1 tube. I have to say my OH had been absolutely amazing , looking after me so well and letting me cry on his shoulder or go sit by myself when I just needed some time to myself .
I just wondered if there was any advise for TTC next time? I was told it is unlikely it will happen again and it was just one of those things but I'm terrified
Thank you xx