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Am I in the process of being ghosted?

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FairfaxAikman · 08/12/2018 18:22

DS is seven months old. Ever since he was born, my so-called best friend seems to have been avoiding me - I've seen her four times since May.

I know she wants kids but may potentially have trouble conceiving.

Initially I put the lack of contact down to us both being busy with our mutual hobbies, which take up our weekends, but I've noticed FB conversations (always initiated by me) peter out very quickly.

However the final straw was bumping onto a mutual acquaintance who had no idea DS even existed as my BF hadn't mentioned anything to her.

Should I confront her and ask what the hell is going on?

OP posts:
WatchingFromTheSidelines · 28/12/2018 10:43

It's probably the only way you'll get any answers.

Congratulations on the birth of your son Flowers

SeaGreenSeaGlass · 28/12/2018 10:45

Have you posted about this recently? It's very familiar.

Eatsleepworkrepeat · 28/12/2018 10:49

You've probably got your answer - she wants children and finds it painful to be around your ds, so is avoiding you. It is what it is, if you stay low contact the friendship might pick up again (especially if she gets pregnant) or if you don't want to hang about waiting for her to want to spend time with you it'll probably fizzle out. Try to let it go and enjoy your ds.

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