Today I found 2 notes in my 6 year old daughters pocket when she got in from school. Both saying "I hate you (followed by her name)"
I asked her about these obviously and she got a bit upset and told me that the girl that sits next to her had given them to her.
The same girl that she's told me on several occasions she doesn't like sitting beside and who constantly talks and distracts her and tells her she can't play with the other kids only her. I've told her to ignore her and play with whoever she likes and tell the teacher if it happens again. I thought approaching the teacher over this wasn't called for and the girl was obviously just a bit chatty and just really wanted to be my daughters friend. But now today with the notes I decided this definitely needs brought to the teachers attention. I phoned the school and asked to speak to her teacher, told her about the notes things in the past etc but she didn't seem overally concerned nor did she fill me with confidence that anything would be done. I asked her what she would do and she said "I will speak to them both tomorrow but I don't think there was any harm in it" and she had to hurry off the phone because she is doing sets for the Christmas play. In my eyes I've two options either I go into the school tomorrow to speak to her face to face or just completely cut out the middle man and speak to the head teacher? What would you do? I just feel like she could have put my mind at ease a bit more than she did I told her I was a bit worried of how she was making my daughter feel but she didn't seem very concerned at all and made me feel like I was over reacting. Thank you in advance