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I've just tipped wine over him rant!!

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mrsgrinchx · 29/11/2018 05:10

Getting really sick of him and I can't bare it anymore. DD has just woke up for her feed I'm fast asleep I'm in pain been ill for two days but still managing to look after both kids all day cook clean take my Mum to and back from the hospital.
He is of today and finished at 1 but sat clowning around at his mums until 5!! so I asked him to do this feed and he's waking me up where's this wheres that you do this while I get that trying to get out of it.

I just got up and come downstairs he's calling me a lazy bitch and followed me downstairs and turned the lights on in the living room where I'm sleeping and then walking of he did this twice second time I lost it.

I'm telling him to leave me alone trying to push him upstairs and he's just shouting over me I grabbed the wine and tipped it over him now he's saying this is domestic abuse your abusing me.

Why can he not just do one fucking job it doesn't take two people to change a nappy!! He just goads me until I loose my shit all the time I've had enough!

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penisbeakers · 29/11/2018 05:18

Throw the fucker out.

mrsgrinchx · 29/11/2018 05:23

@penisbeakers oh I wish I could he'd be gone a long time ago

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blackcat86 · 29/11/2018 05:25

Y
He's being a prize twat but your relationship sounds very unhealthy. He doesn't support you with the DCs even when you're unwell, you've pushed him/shouted/poured wine over him, he's been quite controlling in trying to wake you by the turning the lights on. What is keeping you both together? You're being abusive to each other in all honest but that doesn't excuse him not being willing or able to parent. I'd be asking him why he's incapable of changing a nappy by himself and that he'd better learn fast because he'll be doing it all himself during contact - pack his stuff, boot him out.

KeiTeNgeNge · 29/11/2018 05:25

If you can’t theow him out.. then leave him

mrsgrinchx · 29/11/2018 05:37

@blackcat86 I completely agree I ask him this all the time why are we even together. We have a couple good days then one huge row and he doesn't seem to think it's bad!
It's embarrassing when I see the neighbours and not fair on the kids.

@KeiTeNgeNge no where to go I have two kids and at uni.

I will leave one day

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Zoflorabore · 29/11/2018 05:38

Where did the wine appear from?

He sounds horrible.

mrsgrinchx · 29/11/2018 05:47

Dining table I had some leftover in a glass from dinner yesterday.
Oh he is but he doesn't see it!

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NotANotMan · 29/11/2018 05:54

His behaviour is abusive.
Tipping wine over him isn't ok clearly but victims of emotional abuse often lash out physically in retaliation. Neither is ok but it doesn't make you abusive.

notsureofname · 29/11/2018 06:00

Apparently such an awful relationship why have a [another as you mention kids] baby with him ?

mrsgrinchx · 29/11/2018 11:25

@notsureofname ds isn't his

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