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Sending intimate pictures to your dp...

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DiamondsInTheMud · 28/11/2018 22:22

Do people do this?

If you do, do you send pics when dp asks, or are the surprise pics for them? Are they always appreciated?

Used to send pics to an ex if i was away for a few days, was a bit of fun. He would ask, i would send. With a new guy, and its a long distance thing. Hes never asked or mentioned anything along the lines of wanting a cheeky pic, and although i woukd he happy to (and want to!) Send some sexy pics, im wary about sending them out of nowhere, in case they arent wanted...? But then is it more likely that dp doesnt want to ask? He is very gentlemanly and polite and i think he would worry about offending me.

Do guys generally appreciate this kind of thing?

(Feel i should mention that yes i know pics sent privately might not always remain so, but as much as it wouldn't be ideal if any pics were shared with others, the world wouldnt end and i think i look ok so wouldnt be horrified by people seeing...)

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BlancheM · 28/11/2018 23:29

I've never gratefully received one, I've either chuckled at the arrogance of it or thought it was tacky. Wouldn't send one.

RaspberryRipple1963 · 28/11/2018 23:37

I would never risk it. However lovely a guy seems when you are in a loving relationship with him,there is no telling whether they might turn nasty if you split up. I've seen it happen with a friend of mine,. Her DP seemed like such a nice bloke,I was quite shocked when she told me that he'd threatened to 'broadcast' her 'cheeky' photos when they split up.

SnailMailFan · 28/11/2018 23:44

I’d never do it. I’ve been with my husband for long enough to remember taking my photos into Boots for processing, or sending the film off to Truprint. And thank god for that.

Just a word of warning to anyone tempted - despite warnings, my daughter sent topless photos to her boyfriend. I found out after they’d split up when her ex sent them to me via Facebook messenger. It was a hideous thing for a mum to have to see.

bellsbuss · 28/11/2018 23:44

I do and we've been together over 20 years, when I buy new matching underwear il do a full length mirror shot modelling it and send it to him. He loves it 

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