I normally only start threads when things have gone wrong and I'm trying to figure out why but I'm the only adult here and it's too late to contact any of my friends and I needed to tell someone.
For the first time in a long time I'm sat on my bad crying happy tears dd1 is 9 and has sn and is in a specialised school has been since start of this year. She's been doing really well still has volatile moments but is slowly getting better and getting to grips with her emotions. She's been getting star of the week more and more in this school and tonight I've been informed she's finally catching up to her peers in terms of school work. This time last year she was only managing year 2 work and with the support of school she has improved massively. I had a letter from school informing me as I can't make parents evening due to distance and I only get chance to read letters from school when they are in bed.
To top it off ds4 is 3 and has actually woke up to use the toilet instead of sleeping through and wetting his pull up... He's been slow with toilet training due to bowel issues. I put him back in bed gave him a kiss and he said mummy you mean everything to me .. I asked him if he knew what that meant as he normally only likes people and he said yes I love you more then teddy and your my favourite person. None of the older ones have said things like that when they were younger it was just your my best friend.
I know it's only little things but after a few hard and rubbish years for us all it's actually made me feel like I'm finally doing something right.
I don't expect any replies just figured it was something I could come back to and read when having a bad day .