Hey all,
I need some advice regarding my relationship I'm really down at the moment and I think some outside help will make things clearer and hopefully will help :) I'll try and cut it short as I'm sure you all don't want to be reading a essay lol.
I've been with my girlfriend for almost 10 years this December and to be fair our relationship was great up until about a year ago, things started to change, slowly but surely and now it's at the point where I'm not sure if she even wants to be with me anymore. We haven't had Sex for months and the lack of being intimate/affectionate is not only getting me down but making me wonder what's wrong? Every time I try to initiate anything she either says she's tired or comes up with another excuse so now I don't bother. The only time she is affectionate is before bed she gives me a cuddle and kiss we say goodnight and go to sleep. I've asked her what's wrong and if it's me and she says nothings wrong but there is because our relationship is not the same. We used to go out and socialise and have fun, I used to get her anything she wanted but now she don't want to go out anymore it's really strange. The thing is I've tried literally everything to make her happy and try and rekindle the relationship but nothing ever works. She says she's happy but I'm not so sure. I'm just really upset about it and down. I'm not needy by any means but affection and sex is a big part of a relationship and unfortunately that's something we are both not getting :( I love her I really do but I'm questioning if I'm the ''one' for her. :(