My husbands family don't speak to me after his mother was horrible to me during my pregnancy. She says she doesn't know why she was and has never apologised or listened to me when I wanted space and nobody has batted an eyelid. I have been embarrassed and shouted and had abuse hurled at me during my pregnancy and afterwards from his mum. I still allow them access to my child but only half of them bother to see her. My husband and I argue constantly and they want me to move past this and forget it when I don't know why I was and still am treated this way and without remorse or an apology. What do I do?