So I need some advice on how to handle a selfish daughter. She has recently moved away to uni but comes home most weekends. She is struggling to make friends and I don't really think it's living up to what she thought life would be like. She has a bf at home and I feel it is him draw g her back. She also spends her time at his house, home and her dad's house. My problem is she is treating the house like a B&B and things came to a head yesterday. She doesn't l ikke what I've said and informs me she feels like she is treading on egg shells. She is constantly letting me down by breaking/ changing plans we've made at the last minute to spend time with her bf. She's said she just wafts to be acme to do as she pleases, and I've pointed out that while she is her she still has the rules of the house to follow. Am I being unreasonable? Please help.