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Dating a teacher

22 replies

Joanner5 · 15/11/2018 10:53

Just wondering if it's against the rules to ask out a teacher whos teaching ur child?

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BigStripeyBastard · 15/11/2018 12:12

Don't do it. Please.....just don't. It'll be awkward whatever the outcome.

Joanner5 · 15/11/2018 14:58

I don't think i could but its not just one sided i no he likes me as well

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Shirleyphallus · 15/11/2018 14:59

No x infinity

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IWantAPinkHouse · 15/11/2018 16:20

Wait until they are no longer teaching your child and then ask them out.

hmmwhatatodo · 15/11/2018 19:28

Are you kidding?

Kezzie200 · 15/11/2018 19:28

They wont teach them forever. Just wait.

Joanner5 · 15/11/2018 20:46

hmmwhatatodo. Do u have a problem!?

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WitchesHatRim · 15/11/2018 20:49

i no he likes me as well

How do you know? It would be unprofessional for you to date whilst they are teaching your DC.

Jungster · 15/11/2018 20:49

Gosh that would be so awkward

He may like you, or fancy you but still not want to date you and if you ask him out and he says no, it's going to be horribly awkward.

Bobbiepin · 15/11/2018 20:50

Wait until your child leaves the school.

Bloodyfucksake · 15/11/2018 20:52

Have the conversation. He shouldn't date you this academic year, but find out if he's single / likes you/ will date you next year when his timetable changes.

But he shouldn't date you now!

ohnooooo · 15/11/2018 20:56

I don't think you should date him (if he even wants to) while he's teaching your child. Kids can be cruel and that's horribly embarrassing.

Waveatnoon · 15/11/2018 20:58

How old it your child?
Probably better to wait

hmmwhatatodo · 16/11/2018 07:01

No op, I don’t have a problem... why do you ask?

BringOnTheScience · 16/11/2018 07:22

You'll soon get fed up of him correcting your spelling! Wink

Carpetglasssofa · 16/11/2018 07:32

Don't, under any circumstances, ask him out while he is still teaching your child.

That puts him in a very difficult position whether he's interested or not. Bear in mind he might say no, and you'd still have to see him at parents' evenings etc.

And he may feel obliged to tell other staff at the school. When teaching, I was once asked our by a dad, turned him down, and promptly reported it to SLT, a) in case he made some sort of complaint as petty revenge b) so they would understand why I didn't want to be alone in a room with him in the future.

Part of a teacher's job is to communicate effectively with parents, to try to bring them on board with their child's education, to make them feel they can bring issues to school's attention and ask for support if necessary. It is part of his job to be nice to you. Don't misread that.

lastqueenofscotland · 16/11/2018 07:35

How do you know he likes you? Some people are just nice?

Littlelambpeep · 16/11/2018 07:35

It would be really awkward and he would look unprofessional

If it is meant to be wait until he no longer teachers your child

julietrosalind · 16/11/2018 07:36

Troll

PurpleDaisies · 16/11/2018 07:38

If you’re the fit dad to Amelia is my class, do it!

Seriously, really don’t. Do you only know him from school?

daisy877 · 16/11/2018 07:43

I'm pretty sure teachers aren't allowed to be personal with parents, I know a girl who went to my school who teaches at my sons school who I have on social media but if my son is ever in her class she won't be allowed me one social media etc

WhyAmISoCold · 16/11/2018 08:10

"You'll soon get fed up of him correcting your spelling! wink" 😆

How exactly do you know he likes you??

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