Leo wyatt from charmed - gorgeous, great smile, great husband and father and maybe he could use his white lighter powers to heal me so I am no longer OCD etc & disabled.
On lighter notes:
Chandler from friends - funny, sexy, common sense and loaded!
Phoebe from Charmed - funny, sexy, kick ass feminist with superpowered empathy.
Joss Carter - person of interest - in that episode with the dating app? Wow! Cool, capable & protective.
Logan from Gilmore girls/Cary agos from the good wife/Conrad from the resident - can you tell I have a major Matt czuchry crush?
Logan & Cary for the money and Conrad for heroic compassion.
That said I'd definitely also consider
Emily/Amanda from revenge/Nic from the resident - polyamory?
Lily from how I met your mother. Sweet, sexy, caring but with a little quirkiness/edge.
Isabel Fuentes Whitman fools rush in - feisty, sexy & maternal.
Neil caffrey from white collar 😍 although admittedly not sure I could handle being on the run with a repeat offender con-man.
Re Jack from this is us - I get it, but the alcoholic Disney dad stuff would put me off.
Yep - would need to be a polyamourous large beach house in the hamptons for us all!