Sorry if this is long. Just been to daughters review meeting. She has SEN. We are currently in the process of EHCP.
I left my exH over ten years ago. I left due to domestic violence and abuse. It was bad.
My daughter was 6 at the time and witness some of it. When daughter was first diagnosed with SEN I shared this with SENCO & Ed Psych etc to explain some of what she had been through.
This week her dad has complained to school he has received no minutes of review meetings (which he never attends). He is NC with me.
They have made me aware that hat he can request EHCP and all notes. This will include my references to DV. Which he never ever discusses and makes out it never happened.
I'm so anxious he will read it and cause a whole world of trouble. I know my anxiety is unreasonable because it IS the truth it did happen. He did abuse me. I feel like crying. I don't knows why it's knocked me so much.
Clearly he still affects me after 10 years. I feel so crap.