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How to avoid conflict?

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Lottie4 · 06/11/2018 15:09

I reported someone at work today (for the third time, someone else has done it twice as and others I don't know have raised issues). Anyway, everyone left and saw me chatting to our boss. When I left work the lady in question was waiting for me asking if everything was ok. I just brushed it off and walked away. She has never waited for me before so she knows something is up.

She's the sort who keeps saying you'll tell me if I'm doing anything wrong (and yes, we do, but it doesn't sink in) and has asked me before who's reported her.

She's going to know it's me whose reported her this time and I'm sure she'll be wanting to speak to me. How should I deal with her, I hate conflict?

I don't dislike her, but she's just not being fair to my other colleagues who work their socks off while she does very little.

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Santaisgettingbusy · 06/11/2018 15:13

Walk away you cf.
Use the letters.

She will have to ponder the meaning while you flounce off.

PavlovianLunge · 06/11/2018 15:20

Just tell her that it’s not something you’re prepared to discuss, and that if she’s got questions about how she can improve her performance, that she should take them to her manager.

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