I can’t use buses at all these days. My twins are 2, one with a range of disabilities, the other has some delays, and I have disabilities myself.
Double buggies are massive and there’s just no way I can take them out of the buggy, fold it and keep them both safe (they have no concept of danger, one has a visual impairment). If we have to be somewhere by a set time (eg a hospital appointment), it’s just impossible to use the bus as several have to go past before one has room, and if a wheelchair user wants to get on we would have to get off.
I’m not entitled in the least, nor would I say that we shouldn’t give up the space for a wheelchair user, but bus companies need to do more for buggy users. They’re just completely inaccessible to us. I can’t drive due to medication and we can’t use a taxi as I can’t hold them both or transport two big car seats.
The entire point of accessibility for public transport is that it should be accessible for all. If there’s a good chance you can’t fit on the bus or you’d have to get off if a chair user needs to get on, they become unusable for anything with a deadline.