Longer than I thought so thanks for reading ...
Staying at a really expensive resort courtesy of my lovely inlaws. Really family oriented. Put the children into kids club yesterday evening for a pyjama party.
Eldest rang me saying that 5 year old was really upset at losing a game of musical chairs.
What made him worse was the people looking after them said that he was acting like a baby and to stop crying.
When he didn't she said that because he was acting like a baby then she would read peppa pig to everyone as a punishment. This made him more upset.
I asked DD to put the phone to him, got him to calm down by "smell the flowers, blow out the candle". When I collected I was told that DD having the phone wasn't ideal and not to bring it again. I told them that the way DS was treated wasn't acceptable and was told that the children got the wrong idea and that it didn't happen like that. Hmmm all 4 of them tell me the same story. I believe the children.
Here's the problem I've cancelled kids club booking for tomorrow and DH thinks that the older ones should go in because they'll still have fun 
We had a fight about it last night and today.
Did I overreact? Or should I let the older ones in (11, 9 and7)