Getting husband to leave rented house

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Iv decided iv had enough of my husband I really don't want to be with him anymore he has a really bad temper and has hurt me so much with emotional abuse saying nasty things about me calling me really hurtful he won't accept the fact that I want to end it he thinks I'm joking ..basically once he gets his own way he's happy.. he refuses to leave saying he never will and why should he ..it would be easier for me to stay here as I have no family I can go to and he knows that ..is there anyway I can get him out maybe a restraing order or something ..I'm in Ireland so dunno how to go about it here

Sorry mean calling me really hurtful names

If he won't leave, you may have to if you don't want to be with him. It may well be easier for you to stay, but it may not be possible. Do you have any DCs?

I haven't really got anyone that could take me in ..I'd prefer to be here as its near everywhere for me .. but u cannot be with him much longer it's not healthy for me he puts me down so bad and nearly always has me in tears and he can get very mad very quick

If you want to leave can you find somewhere local for yourself. Are both your names on the rental agreement and do you share the rent. Are there children involved.

If it's rented you can leave him there, and just arrange another rented property for yourself. He can stay on and carry on paying the rent and outgoings. It'll be inconvenient, and probably best to keep quiet about it until you're ready to go, (or even after-wards).

You can apply for an Occupation Order which, if granted, would force him to leave. There are details here:

www.gov.uk/injunction-domestic-violence/eligibility-occupation

There may be a court advocacy service in your area, they're free groups run by volunteers who can help you navigate the legal requirements for obtaining an order.

The process is here:

www.gov.uk/injunction-domestic-violence

And this group are an advocacy support service who may be able to help with the application:

www.thepsu.org