aibu to not tell dh scan results?

[nicnacnew]

Had a scan at hospital today to check for ovarian cysts. DH couldn't come as he was working, absolutely fine with me, not something I would expect him to attend. Scan was this morning and he hasn't asked how it went so I haven't told him. We talked about it last night so he shouldn't have forgotten. AIBU ?

I’d have texted results straight away too.

I know how you feel, but actually you can get your point across by just telling him how it went. Then he is reminded that he forgot, you don’t have to stew on it any longer. Job done.

It’s exactly the type of thing my DP would forget (and I don’t believe for one moment that he’s too scared to ask ) and I would also feel hurt, but I know that the longer you hold a grudge the more it hurts you not him.

Told him last night. He had forgotten, I didn't text him as he was at work. Was waiting for him to message first and then that way I know he has time to talk. Also wasn't playing games, being a bit childish probably. Did actually tell him first proper chance ie once kids were in bed.

Darling is there any reason you havent asked me about my scan today? Because it made me feel like you dont care about me.

Is how you could address this.

How heartwarming, OP goes for an important appointment to do with her health. Dozy self involved DH forgets to ask about it and it's him we should all feel sorry for. OP who is probably worried gets a load of stick. Ffs.
Take care nicnac

YANBU, yes he should ask you how your appointment went for God sake it's just common decency.