Right, I've been in a relationship for 13 years. I have two daughters aged 7 & 12. The problem with me is I'm not happy, I'm not in love with my partner anymore, she can be abusive, sometimes physically but it's mostly controlling behaviour. I suffer from depression & anxiety which I get treatment for. I can hear you all shouting "why the hell are you still there". My children and being scared of the unknown is why I'm still here. Do I take a leap of faith or stay put and be miserable? I feel sorry for my partner and I don't no why.