Hi October. I live in St Albans, work in a St Albans secondary, and have a DC at a (different) St Albans secondary.
Change your facebook profile to say you live in St Albans, then request to join 'St Albans Mums' on fb. You can change it back after. It's a great group.
We're SUPER lucky as most schools are fantastic. Here's my opinion:
-STAGS: my choice if I had a girl. Very happy colleagues there. Bullying much less of an issue in past few years due to the improvement/expansion of the pastoral department.
-Sandringham: for the academic. VERY VERY big and if your DC is quiet may not thrive
-Samuel Ryder: very popular in recent years and had amazing results in last year's Parent Views
-Marlboro; very mixed opinions. Those who love it, LOVE it. Those who don't, HATE it. It's great for those who are sporty and has fantastic facilities.
-Beaumont: amazing school but has the world's smallest catchment area. If you can get in, it's performed better than the local private schools.
-Townsend and Nicholas Breakspear are the two most people avoid.
-Parmiters/Watford Grammar etc- if your DC is academically gifted, then you've got nothing to lose by letting them sit the Herts Consortium test. If they're clever enough they'll get in.
Good luck!