I decided to try and not drink until Christmas, or at least barely drink. I am not a problem drinker as such, but it is too much of a habit and I thought it best to try and get out of it, and also hopefully reap the benefits too.
I have, so far, abstained since 22nd Sept. This week has been VERY stressful (sister hit by ex, ex tried to snatch the children etc - all high drama) and I have still been dry! I am really proud of myself for this as normally I'd have had at least a large glass or two once things had calmed down (which they sort of have now, the ex is currently in custody - long story!)
A friend is running a night at a bar that sounds brilliant and I really fancy a dance, a few drinks and letting my hair down after what has been a fraught week.
However, I also feel as if I should carry on being sensible as I feel great, am losing weight and have money to save. While I won't go nuts at the party, I will probably feel a bit woolly the next day at the very least as my tolerance will have gone down (and I don't want to go and drink lime and soda, I'm a bit sick of soft drinks tbh!) There are also lots of things I should be doing the next day as we are decorating the bedrooms although DH said he doesn't mind putting it off until Sunday and also looking after DS all day if necessary.
Lots of sensible reasons to stay in, but do I say stuff it and go out...? I am changing my mind approx every 30 mins so am putting it to the vote!
Stay in or go out...?