my ex and I are divorcing and have lived separately for 7 months.
In July 2017, I found out she was having an affair with a neighbour, they said it was over, but they kept in contact and after 7 months of living in the same home, a few arguments and a physical altercation, I couldn't take it anymore and moved into rented accommodation. That was April 2018.
Due to all the stress, I lost my employment aswell in August 2018. I just haven't been able to concentrate on work. I'm trying my best to find employment and have had a few interviews.
I've continued to see our son and contribute 50/50. But she is now emailing that she feels unsafe/threatened and I should "seriously consider our sons welfare" when responding to her financial split offer. This also coincides with a new "friend" spending nights at our property (on some days with our son and his daughter).
She's also demanding a switch of weekends as it works better for when the new guy has his daughter, so they can all spend weekends together. But she says she won't guarantee I see my son on Fathers day, won't alternate my sons birthdays and weekends, and also Xmas.
So,
where do I stand? We have both been hurt emotionally and physically, Our son has never been hurt, his school reports are great. She's demanding more than 50/50 split of assets, I'm unemployed, and she won't agree to alternating our son's birthday's or xmas day's
I'm so worried and alone.