Should I tell him the new situation?

[Rosegoldlilly]

Bit complicated but I was seeing someone I work with on and off for almost a year. My Dsis was pregnant but unfortunately had a miscarriage. I told him about the good news when she was pregnant but we split for good and haven't spoken since and then my Dsis had her miscarriage. I have my work ball on Friday and when we last spoke she wasn't coming because she was pregnant but now she is coming as my guest. Obviously he doesn't know and I'm worried he is going to get drunk and make a comment about her being pregnant and not knowing the situation. Shall I tell him before the ball to save any awkwardness and upset on my Dsis behalf?? I did tell him I didn't want to speak to him unless it was work related. So should I leave it or should I tell him on the situation

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Anyone?

I'd tell him. I'd say it's important enough to break the 'no contact' rule.

If you've told him you only want to speak to him for work related things is he likely to speak to you and your sister anyway?

Tell him. You'd rather break the rule than risk him saying something. Better safe than sorry.

I don't know if he will speak if he's drunk. I also don't know what the seating plan at the ball is So he could be on my table

It wouldn't hurt to send him a quick message saying you know you asked for no contact, but you just wanted to warn him that your sister will be at the ball and that had a miscarriage, which she has been very upset about, so you thought you'd better tell him in case he happens to speak to her.

Ok thanks, think I'll send a quick message