What would you think if you saw this status on Facebook, now?

[justwantcheesee]

I hope this doesn’t come across as grabby.
Its only because quite a few people have already asked us over the last few weeks what the kids want for Christmas. This year we will be doing Christmas small. We’re not going over the top. The reality of it is there’s absolutely nothing my kids NEED and I really don’t want anybody worrying about that at all. If you’re thinking of us at Christmas, pop round for a brew or do something Christmassy with us. I’d like to think they would appreciate your time so much more so please dont worry. ❤️

Is it too much? Too early?

Agree FBk is wrong medium. To put a stop to relatives giving gifts I wrote them each (by hand) an individual letter, thanked them for their generosity & asked them to stop b/c the kids were getting Too Much. There was a logic who we asked to stop which was acceptable (we asked more distant relatives to stop). Stop applied to birthdays, too. This all worked & was well-received.

I'd love to see that. Every year I try to encourage no present buying except for kids and even then a token £10 amount. But no. I have the SIL guilt trip to look forward to. About how it's not fair as she's already bought presents and they weren't £10. Oh and it's unfair how she bought 7 gifts (My 3 and bils 4) but we can't buy one for her dd. This year we're not going anywhere and have planned to have the day at home and in casual clothing as this is the first Christmas in its entirety I'm off work. I can't wait. Anyway I digress. I really would like to reduce the amount of stuff the kids get. They're much more enthusiastic about clothes and books now so could compromise on vouchers I suppose.

I think it sounds a bit passive aggressive! As though you've got a relative who lavishes big presents but doesn't spend any time with your kids

I agree with all the above, not on Facebook, be clearer as I am not sure exactly what it is you want and have an open house.

I'd think why on Earth have they put this on Facebook for everyone to see? I know you'd set it for only family to see, but they won't know that. I'd also think why didn't they message people directly instead. I'd think it's a good idea though.