I believe a combination of better recognition/diagnosis, hyper-hygienic environments (and I say that as a dx OCD sufferer who had to fight that to allow my dd to get dirty sometimes as a small child), over prescription of anti-biotics in the past, pollution, unnatural farming methods (anti-biotics there too of course) and of course better treatment of allergies means those of us with genetic predisposition to certain allergies now survive to procreate whereas in the recent past we'd have died!
Lots of reasons.
"my Mum is a bit OCD" off topic but PLEASE don't use the phrase "a bit OCD" there's no such thing and it's an incredibly distressing and serious condition, please don't minimise and trivialise in this way. It's really unhelpful to genuine sufferers.
I'd love to hear why I in the last 10-15 years have developed severe intolerances or allergies to various medications. Until that point I'd been able to take anything so I'm interested to know what part age plays in it.
"Did people die years ago of allergies? I can't remember one single person in my class who had an allergy (70s)" some still do. A colleague of mine died age 32 from an asthma attack on way home from work. Otherwise healthy, sporty guy.
"Similar to how hayfever is more common in people who weren’t exposed to a variety of pollens as a child." Never seen or heard of that and nothing coming up when I google. I have hayfever which several relatives do too on one side of family. I have almost always lived rurally and as an army brat moved all over uk and Europe so no doubt exposed to many different pollens.
Dd was bf until 9 months when my milk dried. She has/had a few allergies, the standard genetic trifecta of asthma/hayfever/eczema but far less severe than I had them (bottle fed from 6 weeks) she's not had an asthma attack since she was 3. Eczema and hayfever well controlled.
Also dd was emcs I was vaginal birth, again I have more trouble with allergies than she does.
"l don't remember any children l went to school with having allergies except me" could well be they had died before that point or were too 'sickly' to go. My gran had a brother with a lot of allergy issues he'd died before he reached school age.
"Our diets have changed vastly over the last 50 years or so." Yes but so has the genetics of the food we're eating!
I went veggie for ethical reasons 30 years ago. Purely coincidentally stomach issues I'd had all my life basically cleared up within about 6 months, but if I unwittingly eat something with red meat or red meat products in, even before I knew that had happened I got severe cramps and diarrhoea. Didn't surprise me at all when they found the links with certain meats to bowel disease. My dad was advised to stop eating red meat, processed meat by his gastro dr just before that info started hitting the headlines. He'd had similar symptoms for years and dismissed what I'd said as "veggie zealotry", then when his dr said it and he tried it, same - cramps, excess wind, diarrhoea cleared up. Dad is fine having chicken and fish though.
"When you have a child with allergies yourself, everyone shares their own stories and there are an amazing amount. People are also embarrassed to say they are allergic to something if they aren’t anaphylactic as it’s seen as such a faddy thing now. It’s not until you share your own story that they know you won’t mock them." Think that was even more true in the past.
I have another very clear food allergy, which my parents denied as me being 'fussy' until one time when they made me eat the offending food and I spent the next 48 hours regularly throwing up! Proper projectile vomit too! Never made me eat it again.
"You don't have to go far back to a time when very few children were affected by allergies." Lack of diagnosis =/= lack of existence! Pre-nhs most working class couldn't afford to go and get it diagnosed! They'd have just noted child can't manage eating/exposure to X y Z and not given them the thing they were allergic to!
I too was raised in a smoke filled home - asthma markedly improved after I left home!