I haven't been in this situation before and I would really appreciate some advice!
Its clear that a man who is events organiser for a club I go to is very keen. He's very nice to everyone, but he's made it very clear he's interested and keeps asking me out on dates.
He's a nice guy but I'm not interested and if I were to date him it would be so awkward afterwards that it would ruin my social life.
I don't know what I should say or if I should just keep fobbing him off. I'm going through a divorce at the moment and whilst I am open minded about meeting new men, I don't want to risk my newfound social life after years of not being allowed to have friends. It's very nice to see a man showing interest but this one definitely isn't for me.
Could anyone suggest what I should say or do so that I can keep on nice terms with him but let him know I'm not interested? It's getting a bit awkward as everyone is noticing and I'm starting to feel a bit embarrassed by it.
Thank you.