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Visitng elderly people

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TheFuckfaceWhisperer · 01/10/2018 16:16

Where I live, there's a lot of bungalows with old people in. Like, several streets... at least 20 streets just within a 10 minute walk!

If I wanted to offer my services, as it were, to go sit with them for an hour a week if they're lonely (I'd put a notice through doors) and have a cuppa and biscuit and bit chat, do I need any kind of checks or anything? I won't be charging them so it's not really work... just feel sorry for all the lonely people!

I know a few might be funny about a note through the door, but I'd put a bit about me and my address if any relatives wanted to check me out first...

I realise this all sounds weird!!

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SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 01/10/2018 16:20

Probably because of the times we live in, I would be a bit concerned about that if I received a leaflet. Is there any way you can volunteer with an organisation as a befriender or similar, so that you would have 'official' backing? Not suggesting you're not genuine btw. You would probably need a DBS.

DarlingNikita · 01/10/2018 16:30

Is there any way you can volunteer with an organisation as a befriender or similar, so that you would have 'official' backing?

I came on to say the same. Easier and safer all round.

tectonicplates · 01/10/2018 16:30

I think it would be best to join a local organisation that offers such services.

DarlingNikita · 01/10/2018 16:30

PS it's a lovely idea.

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TheFuckfaceWhisperer · 01/10/2018 16:31

See, I was thinking that, but I also live semi-rural and not sure we have a service like that round here!

A few years back, I put my number down with Age Concern for that Check on a Neighbour thing over the winter, can't remember the proper name, but I didn't hear a single thing from them all winter! We don't really have much help round here

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maggienolia · 01/10/2018 16:40

I'm sure that you would need a DBS.
If it were my parents I'd be a bit dubious about this - you might be a lovely person or might be planning to divest them of their valuables.
You could also find yourself in awkward situations with no backup, what if someone needs assistance to the toilet? Or accuses you of stealing?
Along with pps I think you'd be better off going through a befriending service. For your protection and theirs.

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