Some years ago, I unintentionally hurt a friend. Basically, I put my foot in it - I questioned an idea she had for a project we were working on. It was entirely my fault and I apologised profusely.
She ran a group activity that I was part of, but threw me out of the group and blocked me on FB.
Since then, this woman has not spoken to me. It is awkward, as she lives near me.
Recently, I thought she might want to be friends again because she asked me to work on a project with her. She was friendly enough, but gave me the cold shoulder after the project finished.
I contacted her tonight to ask if she would allow me to rejoin the group and she point blank refused.
I know that there is nothing I can do and that she is not being fair (being nice when she needs something and then being unfriendly) but I am so bothered by the fact she dislikes me!
I wish I could stop being a people pleasing (displeasing, in this case) wuss!