Need some advice

[vickilouisexx]

I don't know what to do I have been in an abusive relationship for 3 years and I am now 35 weeks pregnant around the time I got pregnant things were really bad I was finding on his phone messages to other girls I found out he had been meeting girls I was getting told he had slept with a girl and one night after a big argument and violence I managed to walk out and I slept with a boy as he showed me a little bit of kindness and I guess I just fell for it and I felt like he could be a way out. Since I've been pregnant though my boyfriend has changed it's like he's a completely different person and he is so excited for this baby and I am not sure if it is him or the other boy who got me pregnant and I feel like I can't enjoy my pregnancy because I feel scared he's going to leave me and I feel like a horrible person

Why are you concerned for this asshole Hun? Yes it was wrong and is still wrong that you are lying to him just make sure you're out of reach of him this is very important make sure he cannot touch you or your baby, because right now the baby comes first, I'm pregnant myself and I can tell you now men never change, I can promise you he will always be the same violent cheater, pack a bag and tell him via text and tell him he can get a DNA text when the baby is born.

It may seem bad now but think about it this way, you are worrying so much even though the people that you are worrying about will be dead soon and all that worry will be pointless but you will be the reason for a life and the next and the next, try not to stress.

Whether you leave him or not, keep quiet about the ONS (unless he is a different race to your OH, of course)
It's often not safe to tell an abusive partner
Have a real think about whether you and you baby would be better off alone, without this abusive man