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Friend likely to cancel on me

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Rosegoldlilly · 26/09/2018 14:50

I have a big event in a couple of weeks. My Dsis went with me last year I would have asked her to go this year but she was pregnant at the time and feeling very tired/sick. (she isn't anymore due to a miscarriage). So I asked this friend. However she can be very flaky but I had no one else to ask as I have no DP and don't have any other close enough friends to take. We were suppose to be looking for a dress for her today but she cancelled on me this morning. She says she will come but I don't think she will. I don't want to turn up alone and everyone else be there with their husbands/partners. So Wwyd? I want my Dsis to come along and she said she wants to but obviously what would I say to my friend because there is such a high chance she won't go.

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Rosegoldlilly · 26/09/2018 16:09

Bump

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ny20005 · 26/09/2018 16:12

Just tell her you've asked your sister as you don't want to be let down

SpunBodgeSquarepants · 26/09/2018 16:13

Just ask her if she really wants to come, and say she doesn't have to if she doesn't want to as your sister will accompany you.

twoundertwo54321 · 26/09/2018 16:19

I would just say your sis is having a hard time at the moment and you really want to take her sorry. Don't go into any details that should suffice! Definitely take your sister

Rosegoldlilly · 26/09/2018 19:31

Yea I did think about asking her if she did want to come but I have a feeling she will just say yes. She's that type of person that lets you down the very last minute. So I don't know what to do if she says yes

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