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My boyfriend is bi sexual

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Welshgirl85 · 25/09/2018 11:43

Hi everyone for the last few weeks something just hasn’t felt right in our relationship cut the story short two weeks ago I was naughty I went into his phone when he was sleeping did not expect to see what I did. Ok so I see that he has been on the porn websites ok but he watches gay men and trans men having sex. I accepted that but then two weeks ago I was in work and he set up on a site that men and trans men just message to say are u free tonight for fun now I was reading the messages and he told one he’s had sex twice this I cannot accept. I finally confronted him I said I love u and am not bothered if u r but how long have u been bi he said I’m not and went mad then finally said I thought about it ages ago but it’s not for me so I asked if he has sex with me he said no that the message was just banter but I think he has he said he was pissed when he set the account up and don’t remember the password. I love him but I don’t know what to do I want to be with him but get that if he’s bi then ok I just feel I’m not enough for him anymore just feel so low and shall I just walk away from him we both have got a child each and I love his child to bits she’s a big part of my life 😢

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formerbabe · 25/09/2018 11:47

Run.

And get yourself to a sexual health clinic pronto.

Djchickpea · 25/09/2018 11:50

Wow that's a lot to deal with. But you can't trust him and without trust your relationship is empty Flowers

DemocracyDiesInDarkness · 25/09/2018 11:52

Its not really the bisexuality that's the problem. It's that he's a cheating fucker. Dump and run!

areyoubeingserviced · 25/09/2018 11:53

Sorry, but I would run for the hills, he is not being honest with you

overagain · 25/09/2018 11:55

Yeah, the bisexuality is a bit of red-herring. Not all bisexuals are cheating arseholes. You need to get rid. He's a douche.

Welshgirl85 · 25/09/2018 13:53

I have booked myself in for one I just hope I haven’t got anything it’s so hard for me as I do love him but I do think he is full of lies

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