I don't know what to do but think I'm being bullied at work. I've been there a year and a half (NHS role, patient facing but administrative/clerical role) and things have got worse the last few months.
First off there is a guy who is there most days who sorts out IT issues, maintenance issues - the 'facilities' person. He is horrible. He and a certain colleague are very flirtatious with each other despite her being married with kids and him being engaged. So it's sometimes me and her on reception (I'm trying not to put myself too much..) and they will be engaging in this flirty behaviour, which oddly involves him showing her pictures of naked women, asking her what she thinks of said women. If I or her leave the room for a moment he often Googles images of nude glamour models and leaves the page open for when we return
He has made jokes about my name before, it's not really unusual but he'll make up stupid songs involving my name, once commented that it was" better than being called 'shit' (he) supposed" he makes up stupid songs about my appearance. This goes down well with my colleague who finds it all hilarious. He talks to me in derogatory ways about his girlfriend, calling her ugly (worse terms for ugly but don't want to write them).
I've been off for the last 2 weeks but before I went on holiday another colleague I was working with went mental at me because I apparently interrupted a conversation she was having with a patient (it was very important that I interrupted her as she had misheard something important that patient had said) she slammed her hand down on the table and then raised it to me as if she was going to hit me (I don't for one second think she would have it's just the sense I got in the moment). She got very angry and told me to never interrupt her again. Patient looked at us gone out and it was highly embarrassing.
When these things happen my manager is never around. She seems to always be on annual leave or in meetings elsewhere.
The main point of contact in HR Is as loony as the rest of them and singled me out and completely humiliated me in a room full of people in a training session a while ago.
I'm really not sure if I'm being over sensitive but I go back on Monday and feel sick. I live with my DP who I've tried to talk to about this but he doesn't seem to understand.. he said something along the lines of well it's not something he's ever experienced so... and that was it.
I'm thinking about packing some things and "running away". I have just come out of a period of depression and don't want the work stuff to take me back there.
I'm also considering just having my notice in. I can manage for about 2 months financially. But I don't think DP will be happy with this. He earns considerably more than me and my contribution is small really, but I don't think he'd "let" me just leave.
Sorry for waffling, that was long. Has anyone else been in a similar situation and what did you do? Thanks