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thenewkitchensink · 20/09/2018 20:10

Dd does a sport as a hobby.
Don’t want to out myself, but there are about 40 kids doing this sport all at the same time.
They are split into groups of about 10 with 1 coach each.
It’s pretty expensive, think £12 per lesson.
The coach kind of focuses on one child, while the other 9 practice different things.
The doors to the area are locked, so no kids can wander off, but there’s a viewing area.
The groups are age related, and my dd is in the youngest group. They can be moved up a group, but only if they are good enough.
The last few weeks I’ve been watching and there are 2 boys which seem to be giving my DD a hard time. They push her around when the coach is focusing on one child in the group, push her off equipment, and pull her around.
I can’t intervene as the doors are locked.
Also it’s chaos in there, as they are trying to hand 40 kids back to parents at the end of the session and are taking another 40 or so kids into the next session.
I feel like I can’t interrupt the handing over of children to express my concerns.
My dd loves this activity, but realistically what would be complaining achieve? They won’t exclude the 2 boys that are hurting her, they can’t move her to a higher group as she’s only just started the hobby, and I don’t think they can keep more of an eye on her if there’s 10 kids that each coach needs to watch, whilst doing 1:1 with a single child.
I feel like I might send an email to the organiser.
Do you think this would be ok?
She really enjoys the sport, but her little face looks so sad when she’s being pushed around. She never retaliates or says anything back to the boys, she just keeps on trying to do what the coach has asked her to practise.

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Bunnybigears · 20/09/2018 20:15

Yes I would email. Point out that you are aware the coaches cant have eyes in the back of their head but you have noticed x y and z happening and as they may not have been aware you are bringing it to their attention. Then sit back and wait, you will soon know the quality of the coaches/organisation by what they do next.

sleepismysuperpower1 · 20/09/2018 20:16

i would email. but if it persists, maybe look for a different club of the same sport?

thenewkitchensink · 20/09/2018 20:21

Ok, I’ll email with my concerns.
I feel like “that mum” already tho, as I’ve been emailing chasing up the uniform I paid for 6 weeks ago, as my dd is the only one there without uniform and keeps pestering me about it!
They’re probably sick of the sound of me.
It’s just so bloody chaotic there.
It’s a very particular sport and the nearest one to us other than this one is about 15 miles away so it’s a no go.
Friends have given it really good reviews.
I just think that these kids have just started reception, the boys are obviously struggling to concentrate after a day of being told what to do at school and they’re just messing about and being rough.
Just a shame that DD is the tiny one that they pick on.

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