My mil's dog died recently - DD wasn't particularly fond of him but obviously noticed he's no longer there.
My husband told her the dog had died and was now in heaven. I didn't really want to tell her this as we're atheist and don't believe that - but she 'knows' about Father Christmas and the tooth fairy so I figured there was no harm
However, she's now asking more questions like where is heaven, how did the dog get there ("did nanny drive him there?") and I'm not sure what to tell her.
I'd rather be upfront with her but interested to know how others have explained death to their children - I don't want to scare her and understand how the concept of heaven is very comforting...