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Husband ex girl friend

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sparky89 · 18/09/2018 20:16

My husband and I separated for around a year, during this year he started seeing this younger very beautiful girl.
We decided to give it another shot after ourson became unwell and needed surgery and his relationship with this girl essentially ended.
We have been back together for around 18 months and he hasn’t not seen this girl in over a year (used to worked together) but over the past 3 months I have found him regularly looking at pictures of her on instagram when he doesn’t not realise I can see him.
Last weekend we went away for my birthday and he posted a picture of us together on instagram which made me happy but also I worry as he never used to to this and was thinking it may be a way to make this girl jealous as I know he looks at her profile daily and he was looking at a picture of her the morning after our night in the hotel.
I know he cared for her a lot when he was with her as was pretty much infactuated by her during our year of seperation. But I was hoping with the distance (as we have now moved away) he would eventually forget about her but I’m worried he is still in love with her.
I really thought we were happy and were making things work but I hate the thought of him being secretly in love with someone else. Should I be worried?

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Justkeeprollingalong · 18/09/2018 20:21

Ask him. Better to find out now than later Thanks

LemonSqueezy0 · 18/09/2018 20:41

Yes, you need to tackle this. You have every right to discuss it with him.

Do you think it extends beyond the looking at Instagram pictures? Do you think they are still in touch?

sparky89 · 18/09/2018 20:47

I don’t think so and I have shamefully looked at his phone before and I’ve not seen any messages. All I have seen is that she is at the top of his search list on instagram and I made him block her from everything else last year.

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FantastikRik · 18/09/2018 21:30

Is this the reverse?

puguin86 · 18/09/2018 21:31

🙄

Justkeeprollingalong · 18/09/2018 21:37

It would appear so. I'm new here, what is the point of a reverse?

Petalflowers · 18/09/2018 21:41

Does,he just look at her profile, or several imtragram posts? Can you ask him to,delete her from his Instagram account.

YearOfYouRemember · 18/09/2018 21:46

Ooops

ThunderInMyHeart · 18/09/2018 21:51

I’d be having it right out with him. How can you rebuild when he’s got one disrespectful eye on the past?

LanguidLobster · 18/09/2018 21:57

What's going on?? Is this sock puppetry??

Sorry OP (oops that came up initially as OAP on autocorrect) it just doesn't come up as being very genuine when there's a reverse thread at the same time.

Get them deleted and start a new one if you really want to talk about any experience.

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