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Tips to prepare for going away for an extended time

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smurfy2015 · 17/09/2018 10:06

Hi

I will be going away for several months possibly over the next few months and wondered if anyone has any tips they would like to share with me.

I will be away for at least 3 months or it could be up to 5/6 months. I don't have an exact date yet.

I have bought hand luggage to suit the airline I will be flying with. I don't intend taking hold luggage as I won't be able to manage it.

A friend is flying with me to my destination and she will fly back a day later. I am not taking luggage cos I need to bring wheelchair/crutches and can't manage everything.

Everything else I need will be shipped via a courier service to arrive the day after I do. I will have laundry facilities available to me

When I am ready to return home, a friend will fly to come and meet me and main luggage will be couriered home OR alternate option is another friend will hire out a motorhome and come and collect me which means don't need to courier luggage as it can all go in it. I would be paying for the hire and the ferry.

I have organised a rota of people to come in and out of the house to keep things right and to keep the cat fed/watered/scooped and played with.

My post will be redirected to a friends house. She has agreed to open things and read to me down skype calls. She will also be getting a spare card for my bank account (there will be a limit on it) as she will be maintaining bills, electric top-ups, putting out the bins for the first couple of weeks, checking answering machine for any messages,

So as not to drip feed its a hospital admission via the NHS in a different country to where I live so not a holiday (I wish).

That's why I don't have an exact date, as I am waiting on the phone call to say a bed is coming up with up to a weeks notice as someone is coming to the end of their treatment.

Any tips would be appreciated or thoughts on what to bring. I have a quantity of nightwear and loungewear and hopefully will be able to leave the ward occasionally and go into the city centre.

I have posted vaguely about this before and I am leaving the details on this vague as I don't want to out myself. I know you will all understand.

Thanks in advance for any advice

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MintyT · 17/11/2018 08:20

Good luck

smurfy2015 · 17/11/2018 11:05

@MintyT Thank you.

While the treatment I need here for immediate complications isn't going to sort out the larger picture but hopefully, it will be a factor in improving things.

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TheHatOfDoom · 27/11/2018 15:03

How are things @smurfy2015? Saw you on another thread and wondered.

smurfy2015 · 29/11/2018 09:43

@TheHatOfDoom

Hiya, complications medically which have meant the other hospital admission has been put on hold so that I get the best benefit of the 2nd, it's got big funding in place and is a very specialist unit.

So one thing at a time and the most crucial and immediate first.

Thanks for checking

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