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scaring people who sleep badly and the problem gets worse

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waitaminute426 · 16/09/2018 07:59

I am not a great sleeper. I am a fairly anxious person and have addressed this with counselling, meditation ......you name it. I am still a poor sleeper.
Frequently reputable newspapers and websites put out information and suggestions on how to stay healthy, look after your brain, look younger etc. Over and over the advice is get 8 hours sleep or thereabouts (as if), don't use technology close to bedtime, drink coffee before midday etc. As if it was as simple as that. The drink coffee part the technology is fine but as if someone can just decide, right from now on I will sleep for 8 hours each night. The articles then generally come to the second part: if you don't manage this you are more likely to get succumb to Alzheimer, dementia, cancer, heart disease. It makes my sleep even more disturbed with this information and nothing more productive or helpful about the 8 hours sleep. This sort of article is lazy and simplistic and as there are so many people who sleep badly it is irresponsible. I realise of course that there is probably nothing untrue about what is said but surely some constructive suggestion about how to achieve more sleep and accessible sources of help needs to be addressed. What do other 'poor' sleepers think?

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POAlockdown · 16/09/2018 08:02

I think they're printing facts that people should be informed of. Nothing irresponsible about it.

Saggital · 16/09/2018 08:04

I agree the papers are mostly printing facts.

But the press and responsible are two words I would never put together.

Odiepants · 16/09/2018 08:10

My sleeping comes and goes depending o n how anxious I am. But even on a good night, my max sleep is around 6 hours with at least 1 wakeup.

I tend to ignore these kind of articles. Even with the best sleep hygiene I don't sleep for 8 hours without waking up. My brain functions well on 6 hours - my dad is the same and is in his 70s with no sign of dementia or Alzheimer's.

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CheekyRedhead · 16/09/2018 08:13

I'm always been a poor sleeper and also suffered bouts of bad insomnia. I did cbt therapy. Helped a lot. Ill never be a good sleeper but its much more manageable now

waitaminute426 · 16/09/2018 08:39

I did CBT a few years ago and it did help temporarily with anxiety. It might be worth doing it again.

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dangermouseisace · 16/09/2018 08:47

Meh I’ve never slept well (this is an understatement), and have to take medication to help with that. I still sleep worse than most, but at least I get more than 10 mins at a time now.

My latest health result was that I am physically super healthy! If that’s off the back of 25 years of shitty sleep, I’ll ignore the headlines. Maybe they apply to people who are too busy pulling all nighters at work, rather than those that just can’t sleep?

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