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What good thing have spiders done for you?

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BabyTeeth · 10/09/2018 07:50

Inspired by a positive comment on what spiders can help with on another thread.

They cured me of my floordrobe syndrome, and every now and again when it comes back they obligingly hang out in my pile of clothes.

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FuckMyUterus · 10/09/2018 07:51

Spiders saved my life, and then when I went on holiday they completely redecorated and refurnished my house. Is that the sort of thing you mean?

BabyTeeth · 10/09/2018 07:59

Anything really! Just for fun.

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Saggital · 10/09/2018 09:13

I had a farm in Cornwall, at the foot of Bodmin Moor.

I was a sheep farmer , supplementing my living by offering cream teas and bed and breakfast to the passing tourist trade. I am talking of many years ago, before the era of mobile phones and when Curly Wurly’s were as long as your arm. That was so long as you had an arm of standard length of course. If you had a short arm it is likely a Curly Wurly would have been very long indeed and a standard Curly Wurly still very long today compared to your arm. On the other hand, if you had a long arm it is a good bet a Curly Wurly would have appeared very short in those days and even shorter now.

Anyway, the farmhouse backed onto a tor, with rocky outcrops about 251 yards back up from the kitchen garden. On the side of the largest outcrop, which seemed to plunge down into the depths of the earth, there was a cavern.

The entrance to this cave was very slim. Tall but not very wide, rather than wide but not very tall, if you understand me. Imagine the entrance being vertical rather than horizontal. Now it was impossible for me to squeeze into this cave as the gap was too narrow except for the daintiest person. Well, coming from Cornwall I was hardly dainty so there was no way I was going to squeeze in. This gap was generally some 8 inches wide falling to just 4 in places, but about 18 feet 2 inches high. Hanging over the front of this entrance was a small silky substance about the size of a tennis court net. It was rather like a silk web, but sticky, with adhesive qualities, the odd white bone hanging from it, and oddly an Ordnance Survey map number 102 covering Land’s End.

It was during a balmy, melancholy September morning just like today, (except for the fact it was March) that I took a walk up to this tor, through my garden, between the evergreen bushes and, up the rocky meadow, past my nervous quivering sheep, to settle down with a flask of coffee and watch the early evening sunset. I used to enjoy the vivid orange, red, purple and flame colours changing and shifting as the sunlight bounced off particulates cast into the air from the clanking machinery, SUVs and heavy industry grinding away in Mevagissey.

With my back to the cold rock, I drew my Musto Quilted Windjammer tightly around my body (despite this being a time before that specific line of wear had been introduced) and lay back to soak up the last of the rays before plans to head back to my kitchen, the strong orange glow from the window beckoning me down to it. I looked back to the sunset, back to the kitchen window, a quick double-take. Fuck….the kitchen was on fire!!

The scones! I had put the scones in for the soon to be passing Easter tourist trade and had forgotten about them. I jumped up and was just about to sprint down to my house when I felt a snatch as my left shoulder, jerked back, was held tightly in the grip of something. I slowly turned my head round and there was the most ENORMOUS spider you could ever possibly see. Black body, shiny black and silver eyes, with enormous bent legs mottles black and brown.

The thing was at least 3 centimetres across, possibly 4 even!

And then it spoke to me. “Stay back, Saggi, this is one for me….” He continued “It is the least I can do to repay you for providing me with fresh lamb throughout the winter”. Well let me tell you, this arachnid thing was a mass of writhing legs as it scuttled down the hillside scooping up the sheep’s buckets – all eight of them – aiming its gangly legs for the water pump by the back door. On reaching the water pump its limbs went into action, turning like the London Eye (or how I imagined that would look when it had been invented) round and round in fast succession scooping up buckets of water to throw on the flames. Eventually the fire was out, but sadly the scones could not be saved.

But Henry, as I named him, turned out to be very useful. We baked some more together - his 8 legs compared to my two arms being very efficient - just in time for the Easter weekend, drinking lemonade and eating twiglets while listening to Radio 4. That weekend Henry drew the crowds in as he delighted them by slitting open eight scones at a time, then simultaneously laying the clotted cream down before alighting each one with a blob of jam.

Later that weekend, after the tourists had left, I squished him. Though he saved my home for which I will always be truly thankful, I could never forgive him. A true Cornish arachnid would know you put the jam on the scone before the cream. I could not live with that.

Coconutcreampie · 10/09/2018 09:20

@saggital I love you

AveABanana · 10/09/2018 09:36

I used to have an excessively tall boss and we worked on a site with key card entry 8 foot tall turnstiles. Every one had cobwebs at the top that ordinary people didn't touch but every time he went through one he'd get a face full of cobwebs and spiders. Especially if the person behind him in the turnstile queue was pressing their keycard onto the security pad and trapping him inside

bellinisurge · 10/09/2018 09:44

@Saggital - thank you for brightening my morning with your classic Saga. Of yore, even. I may copy it for future encouragement.

Asterado · 10/09/2018 09:47

When I once lived under thatch, the small ones hunted down and ate the big ones. It made my acracnaphobic life easier.

sockportal · 10/09/2018 09:48

@Saggital brilliant! Not what I was expecting at all! 😁

bellinisurge · 10/09/2018 09:49

When I learned that the big thin whispy ones - that my dd is terrified of - are actually remorseless killers of other spiders, ... that was a good day.

BabyTeeth · 10/09/2018 09:53

SmileGrin

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isthismylifenow · 10/09/2018 10:00

Saggital

Grin

You have made my morning.

Asterado · 10/09/2018 10:26

@Saggital wins the internet today Grin

Gingaaarghpussy · 10/09/2018 11:12

I currently have a false widow spider residing in the corner of my kitchen window. I did wonder a couple of times why my flat was a low fly zone this summer. I hadn't seen it before yesterday because it hides in the recess, where the sash window pulley wheel is.
I also have the spiders that eat other spiders.
I don't particularly like those that have round abdomens, they give me the heebie jeebies, but I would rather be able to have my windows open when its warm and not be bothered by flies.
I don't want to kill my spider, but I don't know how long I can put up with a full body shiver every time I go in my kitchen.

BabyTeeth · 10/09/2018 19:01

More fabulous spider chat -
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/3361482-pholcidae-cellar-spiders-care-advice-picture-warning🕸🕸🕸

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Silvercatowner · 10/09/2018 19:19

I watched one of the spindly ones catch a black hairy one. Proper made my year it did.

Saggital · 10/09/2018 21:04

That sounds a tough one Ginga. If they are not cocking up the clotted cream portions then these damn arachnids simply cannot be trusted, telling their lies and spreading false hoods around the locality.

BabyTeeth · 10/09/2018 21:39

Brilliant, brilliant Saggital

Lacking imagination, but we can also thank spiders for their contribution to the English Language, with sayings such as
Spidery handwriting
A web of lies
Spider diagram
The verb to ‘spider’

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Gingaaarghpussy · 10/09/2018 21:43

I can't even catch it by surprise, it's got its own cave. When it's not hanging out on its web, I can see 4 of its legs sticking out.
I had to get over my aversion to plughole spiders because my older sister was a proper screamer and it annoyed me.Grin

Saggital · 10/09/2018 21:44

And for harnessing our own inert powers BabyTeeth. Just think of the number of times we are reminded to trust our 'spidery senses' when we suspect our other halves have been sexting, looking at dodgy things on the 'web' and stealing a chocolate from the box we have hidden behind the malt vinegar.

IrenetheQuaint · 10/09/2018 21:50

I love spiders and cohabit happily with a large number of them. They actually work their tiny arses off catching hoverflies and other unpleasant buzzing insects that sneak into my lair.

However, none of them has yet made me a cream tea :( Envy

BabyTeeth · 10/09/2018 22:31

Just as an aside, Welsh has nine words for spiders, which must go to show something.

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Saggital · 11/09/2018 06:42

What are they Baby?

CustardOmlet · 11/09/2018 07:01

I have a spider taking up residence behind my door bell. I thought i was just blessed with polite people who didn’t ring my bell in case it woke my son, however it would appear she is quite an intimidating house guest and jumps out of her hole every time her web is touched which you have to do to press the bell
Their webs also really annoy my DM as i rarely get the duster out, which pleases me!

BabyTeeth · 11/09/2018 07:33

NINE Welsh words for spider:

corryn
spider

cop
spider

cor
dwarf, midget, pygmy, spider

chop
spider

chorryn
spider

gop
spider

gorryn
spider

nghop
spider

nghorryn
spider

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