14 year old DS and 'girlfriend' dilemma!

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My son has asked if his 'girlfriend' can come over tomorrow afternoon for a few hours to watch a film in his room!
I really don't know what to do!
I will be home the whole time and will bring them snacks, develop a bad cough in the corridor, be busy in the bathroom next door to his room and generally be present.
Even so, should i be allowing/encouraging this by saying yes, or should i just say no way?!
I have told him i will think about it. Also told him that he didn't need to be getting too serious at 14.
Please please advise me!

I'd have them watch the movie in the living room so you can keep an eye on them. Your house your rules! And I'd be laying them hard and fast so I would.

I'd say yes but tell him to keep the door open/half open.
let him know that you'll be going up and down the stairs or cleaning/tidying not far from his room 😂

Yes, I would do as above poster says. Meet him half way. Yes she can come but not in his room.

Tell them to keep the door open.

As a teen we had an open door rule.

Remind him they are 14. .. Any hint of forgetting that fact he will hear your voice resonating in his head as a fab passion killer!!
Seriously I have drummed it into (nagged) my teens about the law /possibly being on a sex offenders list /underage pregnancy /cms liability and it's worked!
5 over 16's and no bfp between them!

I have never had these discussions with him- it has never arisen before. He met this girl through friends over the summer and is smitten!
This is new territory for me and i suppose the discussions/ nagging needs to start now! I have been very naive in thinking this wouldn't happen yet!

I think as pp have suggested an open door policy is a good idea.

What's your ds's bedroom like? Will they have to sit on the bed to watch the film or is there a sofa or something? If the former I might be inclined to suggest the sitting room might be more comfortable for them?