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The most embarrassing thing ever has happened.

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Riotheparrott · 07/09/2018 20:43

I'm 28 weeks pregnant and twice this week during sex I've wet myself Blush. My DH just laughed but seriously this has never happened before. I'm mortified and can barely look at him. Tell me I'm not alone

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Collywobbles1984 · 07/09/2018 20:50

You're not alone! It was a regular occurrence for me in the later stages of pregnancy, and for a while after giving birth too! My youngest is now 2 and a half and a few months ago I got quite drunk, threw up I the loo whilst sat on the floor. The force was too much for my bladder to take and a puddle emerged underneath me! Fortunately DH is a nurse so has seen far worse and just mops it all up without a care!😂

MidwifeDreams · 07/09/2018 20:51

Thats nothing. Just wait till you poo in front of him in labour :)

CloudCaptain · 07/09/2018 20:58

Tena ladies are your friend. Perfectly normal.

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MidwifeDreams · 07/09/2018 20:59

Bit hard to wear a tena during sex

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Riotheparrott · 07/09/2018 21:01

I need a catheter lol

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KindergartenKop · 07/09/2018 21:01

Haha midwifedreams that made me laugh out loud!

TheBigFatMermaid · 07/09/2018 21:14

I'm just impressed that at 28 weeks, you could be bothered to have sex twice in a week.

placebobebo · 07/09/2018 21:52

5 kids and unfortunately piss myself every time i throw up, and not just a bit. We're talking the entire bladder wringing out like a flannel.

Thebasicweegie · 07/09/2018 21:55

As above. I've only got 1 DS but every time I vomit I full on pee myself. Not attractive

Goldmandra · 07/09/2018 22:07

I'm just impressed that at 28 weeks, you could be bothered to have sex twice in a week.

Me too. I reckon this is a stealth boast Wink

Collywobbles1984 · 08/09/2018 09:19

Glad I'm not alone in emptying my bladder when vomiting!

Babdoc · 08/09/2018 09:29

I’m puzzled as to why you would want sex with a full bladder- isn’t that very uncomfortable? Why not just go to the loo before dtd? If it’s empty, you can’t wet yourself. Problem solved!
Also rather puzzled by PPs who think sex twice a week is excessive when pregnant. All those hormones made me frantic for the duration.
It used to annoy my fetus though - she would rap imperiously on my uterine wall when things got too vigorous for her liking!

happinessischocolate · 08/09/2018 09:37

After having 2 kids I would wet myself everytime I sneezed, 15 years later I seem to have regained control again though.

I agree with the couldnt be arsed when pregnant especially at the 28 weeks stage

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Riotheparrott · 08/09/2018 09:56

I didn't knowingly have a full bladder. I'm going the loo ever 20 minutes as my bladder fills so quickly

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TheBigFatMermaid · 08/09/2018 11:15

I didn't knowingly have a full bladder. I'm going the loo ever 20 minutes as my bladder fills so quickly

Now the stealth boast about sex lasting longer than 20 minutes. Grin

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Riotheparrott · 08/09/2018 11:30

Hahahaha it's not funny. I swear I smell like peeBlush

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TheBigFatMermaid · 08/09/2018 14:45

I get that you are mortified, but in all seriousness, he is not bothered. He is going to see you at your most vulnerable very soon and this will pale into insignificance.

As for smelling like pee now, have you not showered?

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Riotheparrott · 08/09/2018 15:17

Of course I shower every day it was a joke. Jesus some people on here are so literal

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Pamdoo · 08/09/2018 15:25

I’m puzzled as to why you would want sex with a full bladder- isn’t that very uncomfortable? Why not just go to the loo before dtd? If it’s empty, you can’t wet yourself. Problem solved!

Never worked like that for me when I was pregnant, could go for a wee then be desperate again 5 mins later. Don't know where it all came from!

OP I feel for you, not during sex as didn't have the energy (I'm envious of you!) But definitely wet myself when asleep a few times Blush

Pamdoo · 08/09/2018 15:27

Also as MidwifeDreams said, wait til you have the baby, all sense of dignity goes out the window Grin

OraangeSoda · 08/09/2018 15:47

Why are you embarrassed? It’s your husband for goodness sake. Confused

JumpedOverTheMoon · 08/09/2018 15:54

Haha just because he's her husband doesn't mean she is ok with pissing on him, unless they're in to that kind of thing... Grin

Pamdoo · 08/09/2018 16:22

Haha just because he's her husband doesn't mean she is ok with pissing on him, unless they're in to that kind of thing

They really must inform you when you get married that coating each other in bodily fluids is a totally acceptable everyday normal thing and there's no need to be mortified about it Grin

ShirleyPhallus · 08/09/2018 16:25

As for smelling like pee now, have you not showered?

Classic mumsnet question Grin

Rebecca36 · 08/09/2018 16:44

MidwifeDreams Fri 07-Sep-18 20:51:10
Thats nothing. Just wait till you poo in front of him in labour smile
....

I did that. Only a little bit.

I haven't weed in the same circumstances as the op but I injured my back and couldn't walk far or sit on the loo. My husband brought me a bucket which was on the floor and he helped me position my legs either side. Unfortunately half of it went over the side! I was mortified, he was perfectly OK about it but I kept thinking, "This is the beginning of the end". However I recovered and can now laugh at the memory.