NC for this. Just as the title suggests. How does one work through the lies, accusations and malicious threats that comes from an unofficial 'trial' by social media?
Am just coming out the other side of a nasty and totally untrue vile accusation that was posted by someone I don't even know. Once it was posted, several family members I am no contact with joined in. They then said more lies-it was disgusting to see. This was shared round social media and everyone had a jolly jape, inciting others to violence against me.
Have now cleared my name with relevant authorities, they can see it was malicious and I did not do what I was accused of. Have removed social media accounts also.
It has taken a lot out of me though, the upset, the fear of retaliation by people who don't now me but believe what this person said. I've lost weight and feel awful as this has rumbled on, spurred on by more spite.
Am doing my best to move on, but I can't get over what my own family said I did. They now I have MH problems (all under control usually) and said this in an attempt to push me to a breakdown or worse.
Luckily friends and family have rallied round and I have a good support network, but is there anything I can do?