Help. I do not know how to handle my only sister. I would love to be close to her But we never have and she has always bossed me about. No idea why even now as a middle age mum I still feel like she has this hold over me. I really need to stand up to her but the problem is I never have!! She deletes me, blocks me when she feels like it , never calls . I think she thinks I have a perfect life , she goes out of my life then just wonders back in, then block , ignores me again !! For years people have said “ why do you not just ignore her “ and I think yes I will only to jump as soon as she shouts me back into her life. She has never bothered with any of my five children they do not know her. She is rude and selfish and I honestly do not know how she gets by in life. I love her as she is my only sister but I am at the stage where I do not want this person in my life to then walk out again. Both my parents are no longer around and other than an distant Aunt ( who lives in Spain ) we have no other relatives. I have no idea how to stop this roller coaster she puts me on. Ideas would be appreciated. Thank you.