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Confusedfriend12 · 31/08/2018 10:59

I have been close friends with someone for 9 years, they're the Godmother of my child and were one of my bridesmaids. Recently this person grew distant although throughout the 9 years that has always been the way they are as a person. Distant and then close, however I have never experienced anything like this. Anyway to cut a long story short they have blocked me on every platform without explanation.
Mutual friends have tried to work out why but she has said she no longer wants contact with me after the last time we were out. That she doesn't want to talk about it. (We went for food everyone was sober and we really can't work out what it could be. Myself and this person weren't left alone throughout the whole of the night so if something had happened other people would know too).

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Confusedfriend12 · 31/08/2018 11:00

She blocked me about a week after we went for food...
She has now blocked my mother on social media...
I'm not on any type of social media other than whatsapp and snapchat but mutual friends have said she's even left 2 year old group chats on fb... I just can't get my head around it?
I have never fell out with any of my friends before because we are all quite assertive people, if we feel upset or annoyed we amicably confront each other and resolve it. I just feel like this is a very strange and hostile thing to do. I feel like I'm a teenager...
Just an additional thought, myself and this person probably contacted each other once twice a month... So it's not as though I've harrassed her either... My friends are all quite upset as I'm always there for everyone, especially this particular person in the past. But without a reason or contact there's no way I can resolve this. So I guess WWYD?

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user1457017537 · 31/08/2018 11:03

Is she being pressured by someone else, ie a partner, into curtailing social media, and thereby, her friends and friendship groups.

Confusedfriend12 · 31/08/2018 11:08

Hi I think I've posted in the wrong forum Confused... I honestly don't think so, she's quite an independent person.

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