Partner and I been having some issues lately he’s working hard long hours I’ve just got a new job and we’ve both just brought our first house. Haven’t spent a lot of time together recently but partner and I had a long chat this week and both agreed to make some time for each other and work on our separate issues. He agreed to go to dinner on Friday night. This morning he mentioned he might not feel up to it because he was leaving at 7 to go collect something. I had agreed to go meet him after and do some shopping while he was busy. I felt this was ok as we would spend some time together get some lunch maybe. When he arrived he and I went into a few shops I asked if I could try on this bra and would he mind waiting. I was gone 15 mins due to sales lady going to get me some different sizes. When I came out he threw a huge strop said he wanted to go home that he didn’t think I would take 15 mins and make him wait for me. Weve since got home and he’s mentioned after work drinks I’ve said he can go but was a bit huffy he’s been out to the pub 3 nights this week. He was supposedly to tired to go for dinner. We’ve had a massive row I’ve said how come you have time for mates and not for me. why don’t you make an effort with me didn’t even get me a birthday card or gift he’s shouted back I kept telling him to leave so I could be on my own. He’s then shouted I’ve ruined his night and he didn’t want to go now he’s thrown his keys at the wall broke the key ring walls all marked and then blamed me for him doing it apparently I stresss him out. He kept saying at the beginning that I was annoyed he was going out and I just kept saying I am annoyed but I don’t want to cause an argument so just go.