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University decision

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sausagerollandbeans · 23/08/2018 19:25

I have completed the first year of a degree at my local university. I started it straight after my A Levels, and I have been living at home. While I loved the subject at school, I haven't been enjoying my course. I am now unsure whether I want to complete the remaining years of my degree. This is something I've been trying to decide for the last six months. I have received an offer to go to a university two hours away to study a course that, while similar, is suitably different and is much more tailored to my interests. However, I would need to accept the offer by tomorrow afternoon, and I'm not sure if it's the right decision.

I have never lived away from home before and I don't want to rush into something and leave the friends that I've made and volunteering opportunities at home. Also, I would need to quickly find somewhere to live and buy what I need in time for term starting in less than two weeks. I also feel bad about leaving my family because we're close and they would really miss me. On the other hand, I think I would like to start branching out and having my own life apart from my family. I don't know what I would do if I didn't go to university. I have a friend doing the course at the other university and she's really been enjoying it. I think I've been a bit jealous of how she's enjoying her degree and the way she's settled into university life there. Any advice would be much appreciated.

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Clairetree1 · 23/08/2018 19:28

don't let living with your family or not influence your decision. It doesn't have to be for ever if you really feel later you should go back, although you are the age to leave home! many graduates return to their family home, many don't, that can be something you think again about later on. Meanwhile, you would be very close, and could still return home weekly, if you wanted to

Clairetree1 · 23/08/2018 19:29

will you be transferring to the first year or the second year? Obviously second year will leave you with fewer debts and more options of further study later

wowfudge · 23/08/2018 19:31

You wouldn't have explored going to the other university if you had been happy at the local one - six months of thinking it's not right is most of the academic year. Assuming you have done A Levels then gone straight to uni, now is the time to strike out on your own. No sensible family would hold that against you. Do it - go and do the other course. You can sort out the rest in the time before the semester starts.

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sausagerollandbeans · 23/08/2018 19:49

I would be starting the first year as there isn't enough similarity between the two courses. I'm frightened about accepting the offer for the other course in case it's not the right decision. But the idea of continuing the one I'm on is not a nice one. Neither scenario is perfect and I'm scared.

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sashh · 23/08/2018 20:12

It sounds like you are sure not to continue your current course. So that is not an option.

Your options are to go to uni to study something you would hopefully enjoy or taking a year out to reassess. You can defer your place if you do.

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