Hey
This is my first post. I've 4 DC under 7 youngest is 1. DH works 12-14 hour days 6 days a week. I'm a SAHM. I have family near but feel bad asking for help as they have their own lives. He came home at a normal time today and left to go to the pub there after the kids went down. 🙄 if I ask him to come home at a specific time he doesn't and he'll ask his mum to come over to babysit while he's still at work. It's like we aren't important. I've said this to him many times and he said we are important that's why he's working so he can pay the bills, which i understand but I'm so lonely and tired. I think I'm burnout. How can I get him to understand that he's missing out on his kids. I really resent him for just being able to get up and go without a care in the world, without having to organise the kids. I obvs love my kiddies to bits but all day everyday takes its toll, he lies in on a Sunday and I'll bring him breakfast in bed, but I selfishly find myself asking " when's my day off?'
I'm tired and want to escape 