I’ve been with my partner for 5 years, we’re in a lesbian relationship and I get the feeling my partners Mom either doesn’t like me or doesn’t agree, she’s never commented on our relationship she’s never said she doesn’t agree but she hasn’t said she is happy either?
I also feel she doesn’t refer to us as a couple or acknowledge our relationship.
I don’t know if I’m over sensetive my partner says her parents love me, but I don’t feel her Mom does. It’s strange because we’ve never had cross words and we do get on but I just get the feeling she just tolerates me?
I find it so hard as my partners brothers girlfriend seems to be preferred over me and treated more like family yet she’s nasty to the brother, nasty to the family, she causes a lot of trouble and they split up as much as they are together but my mother in law seems to be up her arse she will do anything for her.
It’s so confusing as I go out my way to help her, I try my best to be good to her, I invite her for dinner, include her in things we do, think of her when we’re shopping etc but I still don’t feel as though I’m truly liked?
Recently she had a family photo album printed off her phone too, and as she was showing us I noticed me and my partner aren’t in there? There’s photos of my partner on her own or when she was younger but there’s no photos of us together... and there’s photos of her brother with his girlfriend this just made my suspicions raise..
My partner said it’s probably cause she has no photos of us, but surely it wouldn’t hurt to of found one of us?
Am I being paranoid?