Hello,
I am 20 years old with a 3 year old and I am also 21 weeks pregnant. I had my first when I was 16 her father (who I am still with now and have been for 6 years) went on a 9 month pub bender and didn't speak to me and just didn't want anything to do with me due to the fact I was pregnant and he is a year younger than me so was probably a lot to take in, after having my little girl he came to the birth cut the cord and has stuck by us since then, we moved into our first home together (only a council flat) a few months ago, but this is where it all went very wrong...
I found out I was pregnant with No.2 2 weeks after moving in, ever since then I have paid all the rent all the bills with no help from him, supplied my daughter with everything she needs and have also got all of the new baby's stuff aswell (not a penny from his pocket). A few weeks ago I needed to go to hospital early hours of the morning due to head aches and blurred vision, he did not budge when I woke him up to tell him his words were "okay message me when you are on your way back home". The flat is in my name so has nothing to do with him he came home earlier on this evening hammered and kicked a hole through MY cupboard door forgetting that he doesn't pay anything here, I sent him out of the house away from me as I don't need the stress due to having high blood pressure and working my ass off all week for him to come here and trash the place, later on again he came home to get his stuff he then spewed all in MY bathroom and passed out on MY bed.
Please may someone help me on how to end it😢 I feel sorry for my poor daughter she will be heart broken if her daddy isn't around but then I feel if he isn't living here he won't bother with her and I don't have a great relationship with my parents and would hate for her to hurt the same way I do knowing that I'm uncared for by the people (in this case person) who should care for me the most, it's also all I've known for six years and I have no one else to go to, none of my friends bother with me as they all go out partying and just simply don't have time for me, I just won't know what to do with myself after him being all I have known for six years😢