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MickeyMouse101 · 17/08/2018 19:17

My partner and I decided to have a break for a while, I was always feeling aggy and ill so we thought best if we have some time to ourselves. i moved back to my mums for a little bit and in that time he slept with 2 different people and in our bed!! Later i found out i was pregnant so i moved back in ever since then i cant forgive him for what he has done and he thinks i am comfortable sleeping in the same bed... He said we werent together so its not like he done anything wrong. Am i being unreasonable or should i feel this way?

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Wetwashing00 · 17/08/2018 22:19

Women tend to feel more upset about those kinds of details.
No one can tell you if you’re being unreasonable as everyone has different feelings about what is acceptable or not.

For me it would depend on wether it was a break with the intention of getting back together or not.
If it was agreed that you would get back together after some space then the very fact he slept with someone else would be enough for me to end the relationship altogether.
If it wasn’t discussed then he wasn’t really breaking any rules/promises.
And the fact that it’s the same bed (if that is what makes you uncomfortable) doesn’t mean anything. But it seems like you’re trying to downplay his actions a bit by focusing on the same bed issue. Even if you got a new bed it doesn’t change the fact that he did it.

I hope I have the understanding of your post right. Is it about the same bed or just sharing a bed with him?

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