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He's just not that into you...

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lolly46p · 13/08/2018 15:07

6 weeks ago my partner of 7 years and husband of 4 told me he was no longer attracted to me, he loved me and wanted to be with me but he just wasn't feeling to attraction.

Since I had our child 3 years ago I've really struggled to lose the weight I've gained, I work full time and by the time I get in on an evening I'm exhausted, I also travel a lot with work. Weekends are so rare and precious to me as it's the only time I have 100% with our children and him.

I'm broken, I love him but I've now for the first time ever got this doubt that our life is rocky, I'm worried every day he is going to leave me and the little bit of confidence I had has gone. I know I've retained the weight and I hate myself for it.

I don't know what to do, how can he say he wants to spend his life with me but be unattracted to me? How can I not worry every day that he finds me unattractive again even if I manage to lose the weight? Has anyone else experienced this?

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namechange2pointoh · 13/08/2018 15:14

how can he say he wants to spend his life with me but be unattracted to me?

It's called being a cunt.

He sounds horrible.

Since I had our child 3 years ago I've really struggled to lose the weight I've gained, I work full time and by the time I get in on an evening I'm exhausted, I also travel a lot with work

He is making you make excuses. Making you feel bad.

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